The Basics

Safe companionship: (at liberty)    Your horse should see you as a benevolent leader, one who looks out for his best interest almost more than your own. An easy way to begin to develop this relationship is to walk in front of him in the field and look up at the sky or down at the ground without asking anything from him, gently stroking or petting him.

We spend so much time on our goals and we want to get them fast like checking items off a list, but remember those are not his or her items, not his or her goals. Occasionally picking grass and handing it to him teaches him that you are looking out for him.  Spend a day or two or a week just being his companion.  A field is the best place for this if possible.

Reading the horse’s body language: If you do not know the horse or you are learning about horses, here are some important tips: If a horse’s head is down, he is generally calm; If he raises his head that is a signal that something is wrong-he could be worried or sees a potential predator. If the horse’s head is up, be very careful and try to calm him. If the horse shakes his head, he is saying, “No.” Please be mindful of a horse that repetitively shakes his head. He could be confused or uncomfortable.

If a horse does not bear even weight on all four legs or points a front foot, there could be a painful situation with a foot or leg. If his back twitches when you try to put the saddle on, he could have a chiropractic issue or a saddle fit issue. If he is hard to keep weight on, ribby or sucked up with intermittent runny stools, please understand there could be a problem needing addressing, like GI ulcers. A good holistic veterinarian can help heal these issues and keep your horse comfortable. It is not fair to ask an uncomfortable horse to do any techniques or training.

Saying hi: (at liberty)     Enter his space on his terms and the horse should enter your space on your terms. To properly say hello in horse language you approach the horse from the front in a straight line with his spine, hand extended, establishing eye contact, smiling. Slowly approach him. If he turns his head away, back up and wait. If he turns right you can back up and move left. If he turns left to avoid you, you back up and move right. If he avoids you, submissively offer him a treat and then retreat.  The speed of your approach depends on his degree of acceptance.  When his ears are forward towards you and his eyes are contacting yours and he lifts his head, take a deep exhale and softly extend your fingers to his nose and then retreat to give him time to process. Horses are so used to anticipating our hurried agenda and worrying about it; sometimes you can see the element of surprise in their face when all we do is say “Hi.”

Micksay hello

The only goal a horse has is good companionship, safety in all situations, confidence in himself as he meets challenges in new unsure terrain, and most importantly, a great, direct and fair and above all clear leader (that is you).  The great horse trainers from the original Cavalia stage show, In Gallop to Freedom, Frederic Pignon and Magali  Delgado famously said, and it’s so true, “Misunderstanding produces an even greater barrier between us (horse and human) than ill treatment. Understanding will, on the other hand, begin to forge a link between the two of us.”